So after Zesty and I left the IFOA, we headed over to Lee’s Palace for my RRBF’s show. Thankfully, Lee’s was pretty full, and people were actually standing in the front section near the stage, looking expectantly up at where he and the rest of the band were setting up. It was a relief to see a good crowd, especially a crowd full of people I don’t know and/or recognize.
While we were waiting for the band to start, I overheard the conversation of a couple girls standing sort of on top of us. They were talking about my RRBF’s bandmate, how one of them tried to talk to him at Hillside and he was very shy, but polite, not necessarily encouraging any further conversation. Which, being a girl who has a fellow in a band, I can completely see and understand.
Then she said, “And I also met the one in the hat.” My ears perked up, “For the FemBots / Weakerthans tour, I was standing outside having my smoke, and he walked right up to me and said, ‘Hey! How’s it going!'” What? “And then he got closer and totally apologized saying, ‘Oh! Sorry, I thought you were someone else.'” Whew. “When he got on stage and I saw he was one of the FemBots, I thought cool.” Yeah, well that’s where it ends honey. Heh. I’m only kidding. Well, sort of. Okay, yes, I’m kidding.
It’s always a bit surreal to listen to people talk about my RRBF in that whole ‘rock star’ manner. But it’s also funny to hear how his rock star sort of lives out in the world too, two different people: one at home, the one I live with, and the one he wants the world to see, the independent rock guy (ie, getting super-excited to see someone he knows, but knowing that he needs glasses so he probably didn’t even recognize her until he was almost standing in front of her sort of thing). In the end, it was a good show and the end of a very full night, full weekend, of, ahem, culture?